

Pornography has invaded our society … and of course it affects teens.
It is also here to name all the pornographic images, in fact some of them are inductive …
Teenagers find it in music videos, magazines and movies and photos via television, internet or mobile …
Without that there would be a sudden rise of sexual perversion, some authors, starting with some “psychological” trivialize the fact …
If for young people, it may be a transient curiosity, for others, the question may arise otherwise, particularly in regard to a new type of addiction … and even though adolescence is a period when he must be very careful about the diagnosis, one can question the emergence of “sex addict” …
Also the evolution of such images to the trash is not without consequence.
A famous director spoke of the fact that today we must add scenes humiliating, violent, insulting … to sell … the era of “soft porn” is long gone …
The latest studies pose this situation: 80% of boys aged 14 to 18 and 45% of girls the same age have had at least one pornographic film during the past 12 months. (INSERM: National Institute of Health and Medical Research )
So how could one imagine that the young person is not affected by such images?
How can we not question the fact that the adolescent in the transition to adulthood, can find themselves in confrontations between pubertal changes (and transformations) and such images?
It sometimes returns to a reality, for which there may not be ready.
How can we not realize that questions are also compared to the other, the couple and the sexual representations?
How can you doubt the impact of this “hyper” or “hyperérotisation” on the teenager who was often the ability to say “everything is fine”?
So, can we find behavior that should challenge: “I can not help it, I masturbate in between classes (A: 12)”, “I tell my parents that I buy car tuning magazines for money, but what interests me are the naked women at the end (B: 11) “,” “it’s stronger than me, even to the bathroom, I take my laptop to see porn (C. 14) “…
At the time, if the violation is a means of an election of adolescence (which may be part of pornography), it is also interesting to question what it could disrupt a subject’s identity.
In addition, it is also about educating parents, How To Have A Baby Boy and to avoid certain “condone that.”
“I was with my father to buy porn movies (D: 13 years)”, “my parents leave reviews on the table (E: 9 years) “etc …
Although many adolescents are very realistic about what type of images, it is also important to understand that sometimes seems hard to resist the face of such stimulation of desire and fantasy.
It can be observed, clinically, how next to this type of representation can create a debonding between the affection and the act …
We can no longer talk about relationship in the sense of sharing that including sexual affection, caresses, words etc …
It is also important beyond the “teens” that some young children are already in this “bath” …
Also, before being assertive, moralistic and be on the register of “good” or “evil”, the new issues with adolescents is to help decipher these images, by questioning relations … :
What makes the young person at a time watching these films?
Are they looking for a form of intoxication?
Is it curiosity, shyness?
What relation to the body shows what kind of images?
Can we talk about communicative relationship?
What representation do we give in the male / female relationship?
What representation do we give the sex?
What do we return next to the concern for sexual performance? (Size of the sex, cumshots …)
What about the notion of shared pleasure?
How evoked human respect, the consent of the people?
What about practices?
Do your questions-not that much animal?
Know Do they “merchandising” that exists? This is also why it’s a difficult challenge especially when you see the media and financial weight of this “world here.”
Etc …
It may be from there that can be done the way ….
It takes time to go necessarily “look” the teenager to discuss the “meaning” that gives these images and to correlate this he wants to live …
This also strengthen his word … he needs of the adult words that will comfort and reassurance in a move that is there to make it grow … This is not the societal context that may be present resource … but references to, let alone to “shrink”, simply “common sense” …
I have not met teenagers say, “I want to live a” relationship pornographic “” ….
Instead, reach out to them but also realize that they are also able to say that in the relationship, there are other dimensions that enjoyment … that is shame, as for someone, share, two to joke, share a drive, loyalty, tenderness, building projects …
This is no doubt that adult must value … even if it has not experienced this.